Trust - Difficult to Get and Keep

I have often heard customers was "I have it just do not trust (them)." My answer is: "What to do?"

1. Requirements - you might have thought that one thing is sure to happen if you do not have any evidence that it is. His assumptions be negative or positive. You can expect that the worst will happen, and then waste time and effort in the process of care. On the other hand you can pass expect a good thing and if it is not the case, you realize have lost the wait.

2. Prospects - you are never disappointed when you do not have expectations. People are unique and complex. It can be dangerous to be expected that someone do something just because others in the same position, they would. For example, people who are just being honest can be deceived, because they have all the others, honestly expect. Many of them are not so watch out!

3. The promises - Mary Poppins piecrust promise as "easily made to be broken.” Sometimes, people make promises they have no intention of keeping. Others promise, but not to ask about the capability. Unfortunately, time and again results in a loss of reputation and trust over time promise not fulfilled.

4. Patterns - When you look at a person's behavior will soon be able to recognize patterns. Those who say one thing and do the other cannot be trusted. They often accuse not forgive, do not understand or are not willing to give them a second chance. You are not responsible for bad behavior (or good) with other people, so you do not fall into the trap of believing that it is unreasonable, if you set reasonable limits.

5. Discernment - There are many people and things in the world that are reliable, but that does not mean that you have to participate with them. You must be able to do research, and then decide whether the situation or a person actually your goals and benefits for your life fit. It could be a new residence, for instance, that is well-built and attractive. Do you really want when every penny that you have, and you will not be able to sleep well because of worry after purchase takes? On the other hand, is nothing more than "deal", no matter how low the price, if you do not need. Discernment is the ability to determine right and wrong. Choose the things and people that are right for you!

When it comes to trust, behaviors show better than words character. It takes time for someone who clearly demonstrate that they have changed their ways. Keep your guard if you have not been shown.

And you? Are you reliable? Other people can rely on you to tell the truth, fulfill your promise fashion make decisions about life? Or am disappointed several times because their assumptions and expectations are wrong?

It time to think about your models. If you are admirable, give thanks. Otherwise, that obligation over time, and others will be able to trust that has really changed!